Real Talk
Real Talk is a podcast presented by Reformed Perspective focused on having meaningful and honest conversations with subject experts about the various challenges and issues facing the Reformed church community. Hosted by Lucas Holtvluwer and Tyler Vanderwoude, Real Talk aims to inform your discussions and inspire you to have challenging but important conversations with fellow Christians in the spirit of brotherly love.
Real Talk is a podcast presented by Reformed Perspective focused on having meaningful and honest conversations with subject experts about the various challenges and issues facing the Reformed church community. Hosted by Lucas Holtvluwer and Tyler Vanderwoude, Real Talk aims to inform your discussions and inspire you to have challenging but important conversations with fellow Christians in the spirit of brotherly love.
Episodes

Friday Dec 25, 2020
Ep. 15 - Rhonda Wiersma - Mental Health
Friday Dec 25, 2020
Friday Dec 25, 2020
Rhonda Wiersma joins us for some real talk about the important topic of mental health as we enter this holiday season. We spoke about the attitudes and stigma related to mental health both within and outside the church. We tried to understand how Biblical and Christian counseling differ in their approaches and how we can get involved as counsellors to those struggling in our own lives.
Here are a couple references Rhonda made in this episode:
Untangling Emotions: "God's Gift of Emotions" by J. Alasdair Groves & Winston T. Smith - https://www.amazon.ca/dp/B07JDDSX8N/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1
YouTube - It's Not About The Nail - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg
One quick note - we’re starting to get a substantial audience with a couple thousand of you tuning into each of our interview episodes. This is super humbling and we’re very grateful for your support. To help grow the podcast, we’re planning on starting to do some advertisements at the beginning of each episode. If you’re a business owner or know someone who would benefit from advertising their products or services on Real Talk, please send us an email at the address listed below.
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Friday Dec 18, 2020
Friday Dec 18, 2020
Welcome to Part 2 of the Christmas Bonus Episode! If you haven’t already listened to the first part, I would suggest checking that out as it helps to frame our discussion in part two.
In this episode, we spend a lot of time discussing why Christians who share the same fundamental beliefs can disagree so strongly on various issues and why that can actually be a good thing! Let us know what you make of our analysis - none of us are trained psychologists so please let us know if we got anything wrong.
At the end of the show, we get into freedom of speech and argue over whether the American Dream (and by extension the Canadian Dream) is a Christian idea or not.
Hopefully you find this episode to be enjoyable, at least mildly informative! Looking forward to hearing all of your thoughts.
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https://www.realtalkpodcast.ca/
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Research Links:
One Christian Thinks: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0...
CRT vids: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list...
CRT article: https://shenviapologetics.com/crt-and...
Jordan Peterson Course: https://courses.jordanbpeterson.com/personality
Big Five Traits (OCEAN): https://positivepsychology.com/big-five-personality-theory/

Thursday Dec 17, 2020
Ep. 13 - Christmas Bonus Pt 1. - Culture - Racism - Marxism
Thursday Dec 17, 2020
Thursday Dec 17, 2020
Welcome to the Christmas Bonus episode! In this one we have on Mike Hutten from the One Christian Thinks podcast to talk about all things culture. You can check out his podcast and all of our research links down below.
This podcast ended up going super long so we divided it into two parts (part two drops tomorrow) to make it easier to consume. In the first half we talk about racism, BLM, and how current cultural movements are impacted by ideologies like Marxism, Neo-Marxism and Critical Race Theory.
This is a bit of an experimental episode where you get to hear a little more from us as hosts. In this episode, we keep it pretty broad but the hope is to do a deep dive into more specific cultural issues every few months with Mike based on the feedback you all provide. Please let us know if this is something you would enjoy listening to!
One quick note - we’re starting to get a substantial audience with a couple thousand of you tuning into each of our interview episodes. This is super humbling and we’re very grateful for your support. To help grow the podcast, we’re planning on starting to do some advertisements at the beginning of each episode. If you’re a business owner or know someone who would benefit from advertising their products or services on Real Talk, please send us an email at the address listed below.
To keep up with the podcast, check out our website: https://www.realtalkpodcast.ca/
Follow us on Facebook and Instagram for updates, clips, and more!
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ReformedRealTalk
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reformedrealtalk/
We'd love to hear from you. Please send us your questions, comments, or other feedback at reformedrealtalk@gmail.com.
Thanks for listening! If you liked what you heard, please share this podcast with your family and friends!
Research Links:
One Christian Thinks: https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkLnBvZGJlYW4uY29tL29uZWNocmlzdGlhbnRoaW5rcy9mZWVkLnhtbA?sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwiAiOWMvtbtAhVIgXIEHaeuC_AQ9sEGegQIARAE
CRT vids: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLrJbHpB9EhgLe7-XtIfq94PtpWw56qz8p
CRT article: https://shenviapologetics.com/crt-and-christianity-a-friendly-response-to-john-piper/

Saturday Dec 05, 2020
Ep. 12 - Singing in Church Feedback Episode
Saturday Dec 05, 2020
Saturday Dec 05, 2020
In this episode, Lucas and Tyler reflect on their interviews with Rev. Hendrik Versteeg and Rev. Bruce Parnell and discuss what each of their experiences can teach us about the types of songs we sing in church. They also try out Instagram Live, show off some cool new art courtesy of Reformed Perspective, discuss their upcoming episode on mental health, and reveal a new bonus episode coming soon!
To keep up with the podcast, check out our website: https://www.realtalkpodcast.ca/
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We'd love to hear from you. Please send us your questions, comments, or other feedback at reformedrealtalk@gmail.com.
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Saturday Nov 21, 2020
Ep. 11 - Rev. Hendrik Versteeg & Rev. Bruce Parnell - Mission & Psalm Singing
Saturday Nov 21, 2020
Saturday Nov 21, 2020
This episode is a special one, featuring interviews with two different pastors who've worked in vastly different contexts. Rev Hendrik Versteeg served as missionary in Indonesia and Papua New Guinea for many years. Rev. Bruce Parnell has served as a pastor in a mission plant church in Stillwater, Oklahoma for many years as well. We talked with them about their different mission experiences in the jungles of PNG and the Bible Belt of America and in particular asked them about their music traditions in their respective congregations. We hope this episode is informative for all who listen and can further aide our discussions around Psalms, Hymns, and music within our churches.
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Saturday Nov 07, 2020
Ep. 10 Addiction and Recovery Feedback Episode
Saturday Nov 07, 2020
Saturday Nov 07, 2020
We go through the feedback we received on our episode with Pastor Al, discuss future episode ideas around the topic of addiction, and reveal some of our exciting upcoming episodes!
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Friday Oct 23, 2020
Ep. 09 - Pastor Al Bezuyen - Addiction & Recovery
Friday Oct 23, 2020
Friday Oct 23, 2020
Pastor Al Bezuyen from the Covenant Reformed Church of Toronto joined us in studio to talk about his journey as a recovered alcoholic. We talked about the 12 steps, different organizations and programs like Life Renewal and Celebrate Recovery, how alcohol addiction compares to other addictions, and finally how you can aid addicts in your life or seek help if you find yourself addicted.
Need help? Check out:
- https://www.celebraterecovery.com/
- https://www.aahamilton.org/
- http://liferenewal.ca/
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Friday Oct 09, 2020
Ep. 08 - Kids & Tech, Church Culture, & Social Justice Feedback Episode
Friday Oct 09, 2020
Friday Oct 09, 2020
Reflecting our interview with Tim Challies, we discuss our episode highlights, review audience feedback, and address questions and comments on Psalm singing, porn culture, church culture, Social Justice, and how to train kids to use social media and the internet responsibly.
If you're looking for a Christian resource to learn more about Social Justice and Critical Theory, we recommend checking out Relatable with Allie Beth Stuckey. She has many episodes with a number of different, well informed guests who discuss this matter in great detail from a Reformed, Biblical perspective.
To get your copy of Still Thinking by Jason Bouwman, go to https://stillthinkingbook.com/
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Friday Sep 25, 2020
Ep. 07 - Tim Challies - Technology, Porn Culture & Social Justice
Friday Sep 25, 2020
Friday Sep 25, 2020
This is a big one folks - the one and only Tim Challies joined us in the studio! We talked about raising kids with modern technology, the problems of porn culture and how it impacts the family and the church, and what the Bible has to say on sexual and gender identity. Finally, we went over a variety of mailbag questions about the church, Covid19, evangelism and mission, Psalms singing and more!
To purchase your copy of "Still Thinking" by Jason Bouwman, go to stillthinkingbook.com
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Friday Sep 11, 2020
Ep. 06 - The Missional Church Feedback Episode
Friday Sep 11, 2020
Friday Sep 11, 2020
Continuing the discussion of the missional church movement, Lucas & Tyler interact with some listener feedback as they further explore the current context of the missional church.
To keep up with the podcast, check out our website: https://www.realtalkpodcast.ca/
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